This may affect marital relations—a bit. No, not everyone is having better sex than you are. Helen Fisher, Ph. After discussing your frustrations, shift gears and change topic. The answer here is, again, to communicate. Another huge bedroom buzzkill: If it happened seemingly overnight, there might be a bigger problem.
But throughout the years you've forgotten that having sex is an all day affair.
12 real couples reveal why they don't have sex anymore
He's content to act like sex doesn't exist. Listen to what they say. Too busy to make time for sex. Our brains are optimized for love, not just passion. See your medical doctors to address underlying medical conditions impacted your sex life. But she has now accepted that the stress of his demanding job as director of a motor mechanical and haulage company is the reason they no longer have sex. It just happens, though few couples will admit it except in therapy sessions, says sex therapist Stephanie Buehler, Psy.